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Capt Robert FENN [198]
(1785-1844)
Harriet LIVEING [227]
(1789-1864)
George ALSTON [61]
(1763-1831)
Anne Margaret VANDERZEE [60]
(1776-1856)
Dr Thomas Harrold FENN M.R.C.S. [1]
(1815-1870)
Maria ALSTON [2]
(1815-1871)

Isabella Frances Louisa FENN [6]
(1842-1927)

 

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Spouses/Children:
Rev Digby Henry COTES [11]

Isabella Frances Louisa FENN [6]

  • Born: 23 Jul 1842, Rushall WIL
  • Christened: 30 Aug 1842, Rushall WIL
  • Marriage: Rev Digby Henry COTES [11] on 27 Jan 1874 in St Matthais Church Richmond Surrey
  • Died: 6 Sep 1927, Southbourne HAM aged 85
  • Buried: Lanteglos by Fowey CON
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bullet  General Notes:


Sponsors at Isabella's baptism were Rev H T Liveing, Frances Liveing, Louisa Harrold.

Cotes - Fenn : 27th ult., at St Matthias Church Richmond Surrey, by the Rev A Smythies, assisted by the Rev C T Proctor, Vicar of the Parish, and the Rev J Tidcombe, the Rev Rev Digby Henry Cotes, Chaplain Bombay Presidency, to Isabella Frances Louisa, second daughter of the late Thomas Harrold Fenn, Esq., of Nayland, Suffolk.

ISABELLA F L COTES
Birth year1841
Age86
Death quarter3
Death year1927
DistrictBOURNEMOUTH
CountyDorset
Volume2B
Page747
CountryEngland
England & Wales deaths 1837-2007

Cotes Isabella Frances Louisa of 24 Beaufort Rd West Southbourne Hants widow died 16 September 1927. Probate London 7 December 1927 to Dorothy Eleonore Digby Cotes widow.
Effects L5126 9s 5d
National Probate Calendar.

bullet  Research Notes:


Pewsey VIII 364 1842 E-G Sept.

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bullet  Other Records

1. Census: England, 30 Mar 1851, Bear St Nayland SFK. Isabella is recorded as a daughter aged 8 a scholar born Rushall WIL

2. Census: England, 8 Apr 1861, 43 Bear St Nayland SFK. Isabella is described as a daughter unmarried aged 18 born Rushall WIL

3. Census: England, 2 Apr 1871, Bear St Nayland SFK. Isabella is recorded as a sister (of Edward Liveing Fenn) aged 28 unmarried born Rushall WIL



4. Isabella F L Fenn: Letter to her Nephew Harold L Fenn, 30 Sep 1890, 1 Mt Ararat Rd Richmond SRY.
Fenn Archive.
Written on 6 sides of note paper, two with a fine black edge.

1 Mt Ararat Road
Richmond
Surrey
My dear Harry
I am going to try and think of some Richmond news to tell you - I wonder if you have heard that the unfortunate Winnie Bateman has broken her arm again - just the same place where it was broken before - they were having a picnic in the Park on Saturday - Cyril and Tilly were there and she was running along and tumbled down so Auntie Annie drove her home in the pony cart as quickly as she could and Dr Williamson set the arm and father gave her chloroform. We had a dreadful thunder storm here last week - nurse and Baa were out but took shelter at Miss Quirk's and several houses were struck - and I think the Bruins at Strawberry Hill must have had a good fright for the lightning came down the nursery chimney danced about the room where 2 children and nurse were then went through the floor into the drawing room below, carrying the drawing room ceiling down with it most merciful no one was injured. Father was at Lady Augustine's at the time and poor little Robert outside with the horse which jumped and danced at every clap of thunder. Siss was there too and was so frightened and unhappy that the Butler took him inside - it was raining still hard when father came out and that wise tip declined moving one inch beyond Thacker's so father had to pick him up and tuck him under the apron - are you not very pleased with yours and Tips photographs? I think they are excellent now Dolly is most anxious to be taken with Pie. Milly went to church yesterday with Miss Annie Proveten, as it was St Michael's day sat in the front seat under the pulpit with her and was so . . . . . and good.
Aunt Annie Hand had Lance Mabel and indeed to stay at Dedham 2 or 3 days before they went back to Belgium they crossed from Harwich to Antwerp last Thursday night. I expect Dolly will want to add a line when she comes in from school about stamps - so I'll say goodbye,
Much love from your loving aunt
Isabella
30 Sept 1890



5. Isabella F L Fenn: Letter to her Nephew Harold L Fenn, 27 Oct 1890, 1 Mt Ararat Rd Richmond SRY.
Fenn Archive.
Written on 4 sides of a sheet of folded letter paper, over written on the front with the Closing and
"27 Oct Monday What do you think of my verses on Pie?" With its original envelope addressed Master H L Fenn Malvern House, River, Dover. Franked Richmond Surrey OC2790. No stamp.

1 Mt Ararat Road
Richmond
27 Oct 1890
My dear Harry
I was very glad to hear from you - your friend Segar[?] is here I have seen him twice driving through George Street in his gilt chariot and four with his band and attendants. He is having so many patients that he talks of being here two or three weeks, last time I saw him he was surrounded by lovely bouquets, he holds his meetings near the Gas Works.
Dolly is hoping to see him but poor child she has been shut up all the last week with cold and very bad toothache - not been to school for a whole week. Father has been in every day to see her and given her lots of medicine. Tomorrow she is to go Mr Davies to see what he can do for her teeth. I have a horrid cold now from hopping in and out of bed on Saturday night when D was very bad, to get her brandy etc - so we are a pair of miserable objects wrapped up in shawls Father has promised us one of yours and Tips photos and he has also given you to your godmother Miss Fanny Torlesse to take back to New Zealand with her next month. She is going to live in the same place - Christchurch - where Uncle Churchill is.
The Hopkins have got a fox terrier now by name Pat Uncle Nathanial got it at the home for lost dogs - but the poor little beast is very ill with distemper and has to have a doctor, I hope it will recover for they have all got so fond of it - your old Nelly is living at Aunt Lucy's now for a little time till she can hear of a French nurse. Jn Edward Kitty Rees and Lewis and my old Julia has taken Nelly's place at your house - Billy calls her "Judea" - I have not been able to collect many postmarks for you yet, I enclose a few.
Aunt Annie at Dedham has lost her favourite little Alderney cow - it died of fever
With Dolly and my best love ever dear Harry
Your loving Aunt Isabella

6. Census: England, 5 Apr 1891, 1 Mt Ararat Rd Richmond SRY. Isabella is recorded as head of house a widow aged 48 living on her own means born Rushall WIL



7. Isabella Francis Louisa Fenn: Various Images, her "Confession" Memorial Plaque in Nayland Church, Jun 1891.
Image on left Pastel of Isabella at age 9 1851 by Sydney Buck in possession of Adrian Hopkins Dorset 1998.

ISABELLA'S CONFESSIONS June 1891
MY FAVOURITE VIRTUE: Moral courage
MY IDEA OF HAPPINESS: The old home life
MY IDEA OF MISERY: Having night-mare
MY FAVOURITE OCCUPATION: Listening to good music, walking & reading
MY FAVOURITE COLOUR: Black & White
MY FAVOURITE FLOWER: Lily of the Valley
MY FAVOURITE POETS: Longfellow Keble Tennyson
MY FAVOURITE PROSE AUTHORS: Scott Dickens ? Crockett Mrs Humphry Ward Edna Lyall
MY FAVOURITE PAINTER: Fildes Long Cook Leaden Cooper
MY FAVOURITE FOOD: Bread & fruit
MY FAVOURITE NAMES: Dorothy Constance Lionel
MY PET AVERSION: Early rising
MY FAVOURITE MOTTO: Every cloud has a silver lining

A Memorial plaque in St James Church Nayland, under one to her sister reads "Also of Isabella Frances Louisa widow of Digby Henry Cotes, Government Chaplain in India, and second daughter of Thomas Harrold Fenn of this Parish who died at Southbourne Hants 1927. This tablet is erected by her loving daughter.
"I thank my God for every remembrance of you".



8. Poem attributed to Isabella F L Fenn, 1892.
Fenn Archive
THE FOLLOWING POEM IS SIGNED BY I.F.L.C. : 1892
A is for Arthur whose surname is Fenn,
B is for Basil Lieutenant R.N.,
C is for Charlie a student at Kings,
D is for Dolly who learns lots of things,
E is for Edith a Frenchified girl,
F is for Frankie whose red hair won't curl,
G is for Georgie third son of his mother,
H for Harry & Hal who belong to each other,
I Aunt Isabella who is Dolly's Mamma,
J Julius or Edgar sometimes called Baa,
K is for Katherine who grows like a weed,
L is for Lewis a fat dumpling indeed,
M's for Margery R C a very long name,
N for Nathaniel or Edward of bicycle fame,
O is for Olive of Simla the belle,
P Playford Dick who at school does so well,
Q stands for Miss Quirk a friend of the boys,
and R for Rees H who dearly loves toys,
S is for Sumner called Georgie above,
T is for Thomas who mischief doth love,
V is for Vandy a prim little lad,
For W X Y & Z no names can be had,
From Hopkins or Giles or even from Hand,
Or Cotes of Rich-mond or Fenn of Nay-land.

9. Census: England, 31 Mar 1901, 1 Mt Ararat Rd Richmond SRY. Isabella is recorded as head of house aged 58 widow living on her own means born Rushall WIL



10. Isabella F L Fenn: Post Card to her Nephew Ernest V Fenn, 17 Mar 1904.
Fenn Archive
Written on a Post card of St Mary Magdalene Richmond endorsed in Isabella's hand
"In remembrance of the old Chancel which is now pulled down, the walls of the new one are rising fast. Many Thanks"

The Rev EV Fenn
Rock
St Minver
Cornwall
Your letter, very interested in all your news, shall think of you on 29 May. The rumour for Cambridge has come to nothing so far. Perhaps we shall see a name in H.M's. birthday honours list. Harry and Dolly went to the service at St Paul's for the Centenary of Bible SY (Society) heard the Archbishop and saw the Royalties. The B's have a foreign countess living with them - who is slightly crazed but very charming. Jack and G not come north yet.
Love from us both
I.F.L.C. 17 March 1904

11. Census: England, 2 Apr 1911, 50 Mt Ararat Rd Richmond SRY. Isabella is recorded as head of an 8 room house aged 65 a widow and mother of 2 children one still living, supported on her private means born Rushall Wilts.



12. Isabella Fenn: Letter to Edward H T Liveing about Capt Robert Fenn her Grandfather, 25 Aug 1922, Bournmouth. Liveing Archive.
248a-b Isabella D Cotes 6, to Edward H T Liveing 445 25th Aug 1922, Page 1 of 2

Rosehurst,
Beaufort Road,
Southbourne,
Bournemouth.
25 August 1922.

Dear Edward,
I am going to ask you a favour and hope you will grant it, and that is not to tell Adria Fenn1 about the doings of her great grandfather, curiosity would interest her and I expect she would like to tell the tit-bits to her half-brothers etc.
I think the poor black sheep after all these years might be left in peace, when I think of the loyalty of my Grand Mother, father, and Uncle Robert who never mentioned him to us. I knew he was a fast man2, but am afraid hard-drinking was a very common vice a century or so ago3 - you must remember you only knew of him from letters which were not meant for our eyes4, and I feel sorry your father did not burn them. I am sure my brother Edward5 would have felt with me and much preferred that his children should not be told about the poor man and that we ought to be as loyal as our ancestors. The family has not inherited his vices, I am sure my father and Uncle were the best of sons and it has always been a pleasure
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to me to remember that just before my mother died she said to me "none of my boys have ever given me a moment's anxiety".
My father had always the greatest affection and admiration for your Grandfather and all his family, who were always held up as models to us when we were children and we never hated them for it! But I think continued the admiration.
When I was staying with Uncle Henry6 at Tansor on my return from India he told me that my grandfather was a handsome and fast man, but that was all, and that my grandmother was a great fidget7 which I knew to have been the case, it was her nature and we all have our weak points.
I am the only old person left in our family now, and I felt I must write.
I am very glad to hear such a good account of your Uncle George8, he really is a wonder! Did you ever get over to Nayland to find out the things you wanted to know? I hope the old family Bible is Safe I wrote to Charlie9 about it. My memory gets worse and worse. I hope your wife as well, I saw her once at I.G.S. Adria seems to have enjoyed her day with you both very much we are staying here till the end of next month and then hope to return to our old rooms for the winter.
21 Westby Road
Boscombe
Hants

Yr affect Cousin
Isabella D Cotes
Don't tell Adria I have written to you about the poor black sheep

Footnotes
1. Adria Fenn was Isabella's niece
2. A man or woman who is quick to engage in sexual activities. (The Urban Dictionary 2017)
3. The Age of Scandal
4. Letters by Harriet Liveing Snr discovered in the 1880's, in a secret desk drawer.

5. Dr Edward Liveing Fenn
6. Rev Henry Thomas Liveing Rector of Tansor Northants.
7. Make small movements, especially of the hands and feet, through nervousness or impatience.
8. Professor George Downing Liveing.
9. Dr Charles Edward Fenn.



13. Isabella F L Fenn: Letter to her Nephew Harold L Fenn, 11 Oct 1926, 78 Harbour Tce Fowey Cornwall.
Fenn Archive.
Written on 3 sides of 3 sheets of heavy letter paper.

78 Harbour Terrace
Fowey
Cornwall
11 October 1926
My dear Harry
I was very pleased to get your letter on July 29 and to know you have a cousin living with you, much more cheerful than being alone with only servants and I am glad he is a good worker. I think it was splendid of you to give a dance, but am sorry you have had a bad epidemic amongst your dogs but hope the very valuable one has recovered. You dreaded blindness for the poor animal.
Dolly is away for a few weeks and I have a very nice Miss Park to keep me company and do my shopping and everything I want whilst she is away, I was wanting Dolly to have a change she had been having so much headache, but seems to be enjoying her change very much, she stayed with me and the Arthur Ingrams at Boscombe at Trisk(?) then went to her club in London and did various matinees and went to Richmond and saw Aunt Ada the Todd's, & Rugge-Prices etc then went to the Cotes Reedys and Gerrards Cross they took her to see the Lawrences at Iverna Heath, their eldest girl Esbeth is now married out in China to a Mr Norman in the Yorkshire Regiment who has unexpectedly been ordered home so the marriage has been hurried on Esbeth was staying with Bertram, I think she is only in her teens and not at all good looking the last time I saw her and wears spectacles. Mabel's elder boy has been entered at Trinity Cambridge and Dolly says he is a regular Giles only has red hair. I expect Dolly back next week Miss Park is a great church worker at Streatham but does not know Charlie or Ella I like her very much she is a great friend of a friend of mine in this place.
12th. Tom Fenn is in England now in a nursing home near London Lucy writes to me and she and Dick have been to see him and she says he is much better in every way except that his speech has not yet thoroughly recovered I can only think that he has had a kind of stroke Lucy and Dick are very good to their brothers & Josephine, his wife and two children are in Brighton and she does not seem to trouble herself much, Tom has always been such a good husband and father the I hope he will get well again Lucy means to have him to stay with her as soon as he can be moved - the East Grinstead Sisters may send Josephine to one of their schools to teach in South Africa this winter. I was very glad to see the Mater and Adria in June for a week the last time I heard from the Mater she had had the Archbishop and Ada to stay a few days with her they were in good spirits and he mended some of her clocks and watches for her! but left her to preach the following Sunday at Richmond.
Well dear Harry I feel I must only say goodbye for this time my hand and head gets tired too soon
Best love
From your loving aunt
Isabella A Cotes


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Isabella married Rev Digby Henry COTES [11] [MRIN: 5], son of Rev Digby Henry COTES [21623] and Georgihannah GALE [21589], on 27 Jan 1874 in St Matthais Church Richmond Surrey. (Rev Digby Henry COTES [11] was born on 22 Jan 1847 in Hammersmith LND, christened on 18 Mar 1847 in St Pauls Hammersmith LND, died on 10 Jul 1878 in Kurrachee Sindh India and was buried on 11 Jul 1878 in Kurrachee Sindh India.)


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